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He needs to go ahead and submit that letter to the employer. Believe it or not, the best protection he has is in actually confronting the employer with his suspicions because he then comes under the protection of Title VII laws against retaliation for having complained about discrimination (actually ADEA laws for age discrimination, but same concept).
He should submit his complaint to the employer and then, if not satisfied, immediately file an EEOC complaint.