I should also tell you this is not the first time they have threatened my bonus.
I guess I should start at the beginning.
Two female co-worker's of mine broke into my computer to see what I was saying to my manager, who at that time was her boyfriend. Nobody knew this because it is against company policy. HR did nothing about it, a slap on the wrist if anything. After that, every time I would see them they would be giving me the finger. At a six flags sponsered company event, I finally had enough and told her she needed to stop. She then hit me. I filed charges of course. I did not touch her or assualt her in anyway. The next day, we were both written up. Now, when the time came to testify, I was told by her boyfriend, my then manager, to drop the charges or else I would be cause trouble, which he told me would lead to me being written
up again. I was then called into hr with the female co-worker that hit me and the hr guy made sure I was going to go drop the charges. He told me to leave then, and say it had all been resolved. It would show that I'm no longer a problem and I wouldn't loose my job. So I did.
Now, I will say that i work at a company that is mostly men. I am an attractive, in shape female who is a top sales person. So I was asked out on dates by various co-workers. I had just gotten out of an engagement that had left me devastated, he had cheated. So I did end up "hanging out" two co-workers. The one thing I did do wrong, the only thing, is I hudded them on the work IM. It was no professional but I didn't know that you couldn't delete it. There was no policy saying that we couldn't date co-workers. In fact, my boss just got married to a guy who worked there when she was on the sales floor.
I had two co-wokers about a month after that I told were making sexual advances at me. The hr guy said he would talk to them and it would stop. he did, but it didn't. There ended up being fired for low production.
So I ended up not getting along with the last co-worker I dated. He had a friend that was on my team. He would always spit out tabacco, and I found it gross. I told him if he wouldn't mind, could he please move his trash can where I couldn't see it, it made me a little sick. The next day, he had put the trash can in the middle of the row, blantly to get me upset. So not only would I see him spit, I had a full view and when I walked down the row I had to move past the trash can. I said, would you mind moving this? To which he replied, "mind your own f**king buisness." I didn't say anything back, just went to my manager and reported it. Well, the guy was pulled into hr. But he didn't get in trouble. he told hr about the im's. hr was planning on pulling me in and writing me up. However, nothing had been done to the co-worker who spit. SO when he was in my manager's office, I went in and said he had no right to talk to me that way. Now this guy was probably on drugs, he screamed to the whole sales floor that I was cancer. He then proceeded to slam my managers door. So we both ended up being pulled into hr. well, this is basically when the hr guy started his hatred for me. He is a big tabacco chewer and said I had no right to ask my co-worker to remove the trash can from the middle of the isle. He asked who I thought i was? I'm nobody and can be replaced at the drop of a hat. He then said that he was going to call me in for the inappropriate im anyway. he said I was a disturbance to the salesfloor and if it were up to him, I would be fired. However, I was not. i was written up again. This time stating that I would not date anymore co-workers or hud anyone. He also stated that I was trouble, and if anyone ever came to him again with any problems, false or true, I would be fired, He would believe them. They drew a line in the sand and I never dated again.
Next, in my business, we get a lot of angry callers. My co-workers have said some outlandish, threatening things to these people. I mean of the charts, like they are ignorant, etc. So anyway, i had an aggressive caller about two days after the incident with the co-worker where a caller called me and stated that she worker for lawyers and was going to sue us since we knew her overall debt amount. I didn't call her any names, didn't cuss. I did say" that might be why you have so much debt, because you are spending it on lawyers." anyway, she called back in and it went to my manager, which went to my boss. I was called in once again, and she took away my bonus, which was about $2000, took away me being able the company sponsered event at the mavs game, and took away president's club, which I had earned by producing 250,000 in service fees for the last three months. She stated that I was a liabiltiy, and if anyone else had said what I said to the caller it wouldn't be a problem, but because it was me, I had to be written up again. My co-workers cuss out these people day after day, they have never been written up. Only me.
So anyway, at this time I became friends with another male co-worker. We did not date, but went to a basketball game together, and then attended the Margarita ball as friends with other friends. That night he met a girl at the ball that he lived and dated with for about six months. The pics of me and my co-workers were put on facebook, and my boss, the one who had taken away my bonus, liked the pics. she knew we went and never said or mentioned anything to me.
At this time the co-worker and i were not to friendly after that, the one that I went to the Mavs game with. he also ended up breaking up with the girl at the margarita ball and is started dating a girl who works under the hr guy that hates me. She is an hr assistant. they are still dating, and she is still there.
Months went by, and I never had another conflict. My numerbs were outstanding. And at one point I was the second earner in commisions in the company.
Then we come to president's club and you know the rest of the story.
That is what I meant when I said set up. The same guy who I went to the mavs/ball with i had told that I only had one more chance so I was not going to have anymore issues. He knew about the three strikes.
So there is everything. What are your thoughts? I know there is a term called mobbing, and I feel that I have been alienated and threatened and completely treated differently.