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1. How and where did your employer "smack you hard" ?
2. How many times has your employer made sexually explicit comments ?
3. Is your employer the opposite sex ?
He smacked me on my buttocks, sexual comments are made daily either to me or other female staff. Such as, If I was going to cheat on my wife it would be with your daughter, or your the sexiest grandmother I've ever met. Yes he is the opposite sex
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Thank you. There is so much more to include hostile work environment when he publicly swears at staff and even when he was at work the other day wearing shorts with no undergarments.
Hi, Tina, Thank you for your kind patience,
I am sorry you are having this difficulty at your workplace and it definitely should not be happening. You are the victim of sexual harassment in the workplace.
Sexual harassment can take many forms and it can be verbal or physical. It can be unwelcome sexual advances, unwelcome touching, or any type of conduct that explicitly or implicitly affects an employee's work performance, or creates an intimidating or offensive work environment. Your employer should not be smacking you on your buttocks, or making any type of sexual comments to you. You should file a formal Complaint or "charge" with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission ("EEOC"). I have listed two regional offices below. An employer cannot retaliate against any employee who files a formal Complaint with the EEOC because if an employer takes any type of retaliatory action, the employer will have to pay some pretty high fines and penalties
Charlotte District EEOC Office129 West Trade Street, Suite 400Charlotte, North Carolina 28202
Phone Number: 1-800-669-4000, Fax:(NNN) NNN-NNNNor(NNN) NNN-NNNN/p>
The Charlotte District EEOC Office has jurisdiction over all of South Carolina.The Charlotte District Office is open for charge receipts Monday through Thursday from 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. and on Fridays from 8:30 a.m. to Noon. You must arrive two hours before closing to assure same day service. I am listing below the two EEOC Offices in South Carolina and the South Carolina Human Affairs Commission.
Greenville Local EEOC Office301 N. Main Street, Suite 1402Greenville, SCNNN-NN-NNNNbr/>Phone Number: 1-800-669-4000, Fax:(NNN) NNN-NNNN
The Greenville Local Office has jurisdiction over the State of South Carolina Counties of Abbeville, Aiken, Anderson, Calhoun, Cherokee, Chester, Chesterfield, Clarendon, Darlington, Dillon, Edgefield, Fairfield, Florence, Greenville, Greenwood, Horry, Kershaw, Lancaster, Laurens, Lee, Lexington, Marion, Marlboro, McCormick, Newberry, Oconee, Orangeburg, Pickens, Richland, Saluda, Spartanburg, Sumter, Union, and York.
The Greenville Local Office is open for charge receipts Monday through Thursday from 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. and on Fridays from 8:30 to noon. You must arrive by 2:30 p.m. to assure same day service. The South Carolina Human Affairs Commission coordinates operations with the EEOC under a work-share agreement. Therefore, it is recommended that after filing with the EEOC, that you also file with the South Carolina Human Affairs Commission. I have listed their address below,
South Carolina Human Affairs Commission:
South Carolina Human Affairs CommissionXXXXXbr/> Post Office Box 4490 Columbia, S.C. 29240 Phone Number:(NNN) NNN-NNNN Fax:(NNN) NNN-NNNNbr/>
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Thank you for your assistance and the situation has been taken care of. I appreciate your help.
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I hope that it continues to work out. I will see today when I meet him. I will keep your information just in case.
Thank you so much for your help.
I sincerely wish you the best because I know how uncomfortable that kind of situation makes you feel. Well, you know my name and know where to find me if you need anything in the future. Best of luck,
It is a very uncomfortable situation and I am actually going to leave this position. There has been a precedence that has been set within that is uncomfortable for a person my age and education. Thank you for your help.
Thank you for giving me an update, I appreciate it. I wish you would not allow this person to "chase" you away, but you have to do what is best for you. Please, however, report him by filing a formal Complaint with the EEOC because if people like that are not stopped, they will continue this conduct and subject others to it as well.
All my best,
Sadly he is in that position of leadership and his role modeling behaviors have subjected other staff to follow his lead with inappropriate behaviors.
That is all the more reason why he has to be reported and stopped!
I know. But it is a difficult one to make.
You will be fine, Tina, I promise you,
I always am and thank you. But as a Doctoral student where my specialization is leadership, i cannot tolerate the inappropriate behavior any longer. It goes against everything I believe and study.
I do appreciate your help and insight into my dilemma. You are great.
I understand completely, and again I thank you for the compliment.
I wish you the very best in your studies, I've been there and I know it's not an easy road to travel,
Just a little update if your interested. I am filing a claim after witnessing three incidents last night. I heard two woman say, "stop that hurts, that is going to leave a bruise" and "let go of my arm," when he asked another woman for a hug, "umm, no it's awkward. His response to all was, "that doesn't f**king hurt" Excuse my language. Thanks for your help
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