My name is***** am sorry to hear that you are having this issue.
I will be glad to assist you with this.
Do you share the apple id with your husband?
What is the username/email please?
You can reply to me here by typing in the box below please.
okay, thank you. What is your Birthday please?
okay, I can send a password ***** to your email or verify your apple id with the security questions. If you want to do it with the questions I will need your birthday, month day year. And then we will need to answer two of the security questions.