Do you use the AOL desktop software or do you just get your email by going to www.aol.com ?
Do you know if you are using the aol desktop software or just going to aol.com? also did you delete these messages from the trash?
and do you remember deleting them from the trash? Can you tell me what you clicked before the email vanished?
Ok your payment was declined so I cannot connect to your computer to help until payment goes through but we can still chat here. Now do you mean that you cannot find the aol icon on the desktop? Are you able to open aol at all?