Hi there and welcome
Can you tell me please how you use gmail? Directly via your internet browser of via an email program such as Outlook 2013?
In gmail, click on the gear wheel in the top right then click on settings.
Click on Accounts and Import and there you will see send email as.
It will have your husbands email address there, remove this so only yours is listed and it should then send correctly.
I can also do these steps for you, and have made a request via Additional Services. This is optional, and if you choose to do this, I can, with your permission, remote into your computer while you watch and do all these steps (and deal with any problems that arise during them) for you. Or if you do not choose to take this service, we can continue here. This is no problem at all. Just let me know please.
Else let me know the results please.
It is there, in the top right corner of Gmail via your web browser (as you said this is how you access it)
Right underneath the circle.
ok.... I was a bit confused why you left without a reply as I waited some time.
Its an easy fix, that my instructions listed out, if you want. I can do it for you... only takes a minute.
Please let me know.
ok I am sorry to hear about that with your mother, I wish you and her all the best
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