Hi I would be happy to help assist you in understanding your dreams. We will start with your first dream. With you kissing a lesbian can be showing you are becoming "intimate" with something in your life. Since she reminded you of someone you know in real life, she can be representing characteristics or traits that this person you know has. Or even a "situation" relating to this person you know. Upon reading the rest of your dream with the handsome guy laying in bed. May I ask if you are working through homosexual feelings? Sounds to me you are working through a personal decision within your love life and who you are choosing to be attractive towards.