Do you have any lingering unfinished business with your ex BF? Normally dreams about the dead are helping us thru our grieving tasks and/or helping us with issues of our present partnership. The most valuable aspects of our dreams are to be found where the dream contents DIFFER with what we “know” or believe in our waking conscious life. (Like did he leave you, like in the dream? And did that have anything to do with your finding your present husband?) I will offer additional services so that we can exchange contact methods--but I'll be hiking up a steep mountain to the Appalachian Trail all day tomorrow, and will make contact tomorrow night, but be too tired to do very much via email. But it's better to start slowly, and build the questions needed to find out what is new and different about the dreams compared to your waking life and thus discover how the dreams may be offering wisdom or guidance for your life direction now.