There are different directions this dream interpretation could lead. On the surface of your dream there appears to be an alienation between one side of your marriage and the other--or it could be one side of yourself and the other. Is there any opposition between your family of origin and your husband or his family of origin? You might be coming towards a breakthrough in deepening your relationship with your husband by coming to new moral convictions about the differences between your family (or his) and your personal love bond.
Or was either of you married previously to this marriage?
I need to compare the real life version of your husband and families with the dream version.
What differences can you point out between the dream's "husband" (physically and in personality) and your real husbande? And what differences between your own family and the dream's "wife's family?"