I can imagine that this dream might scare you as a possible premonition. Do you travel occasionally or often by air? Is there anything else, any objects or other people or other scenes in any of these recurrent dreams? How long have you been having them?
It is also possible that the dream is symbolic rather than predictive. In that case you might be engaged in a high-flying venture with him--a risky relationship, a business venture, perhaps filled with high hopes. If looking at him has a consequence of causing the plane to burst into flames, there might be a recognition between you that leads an angry outburst that could doom your venture, or doom your relationship. jCan you remember any recent event(s) or thought(s) that occurred right before one or more of these dreams? Dreams are more often a deep-unconscious reaction to real life, though they also can be premonitions of life-threatening problems to come.