i meet a guy at a friends house the other day , that nite i dreamt about him i have had the dream twice. I dreamt that we end up going out together & I confront him on why he likes me.. What does this mean
Seeking expert testimony is a sign of strength. A personal relationship with a caring professional is proven effective in interpretation of dreams.Dear friend,There are two parts of this dream, which are manifestations of you deepest thoughts and feelings in your subconscious mind. They pass from the unconscious to the conscious mind through dreams.This one is very straightforward.First, you have dreamt about going out with him because you like him and want to go out with him. This is the wish fulfillment part of the dream. It is what you would want to do, given the opportunity.On the other hand, you feel a bit insecure about yourself, about your desirability to him in your eyes, and so you actually ask him, in the dream, why he likes you. You are not sure if he would actually like you, and so you have created this scenario in the dream.In real, waking life, he might go out with you, and he might not. If you feel like it, you could ask him if he wants to go out, hang out, or whatever and see what he says. The worst he could do is say no, and you would lose very little. On the other hand he could say yes and then you could take it from there.I wish you courage and success.Warm regards,Elliott Sewell, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC
Welcome to my dream interpretation studio, where your scenes & symbols can reveal a higher source's view of you & your life & develop your wisdom. This dream seems psychically tied up with a feeling of love at first sight. It sounds like you're ready to have "the talk" about commitment, that Nora Jones sings about in her lovely blues song: "What am I to you? Darling tell me true. To me you are the sea, vast as you can be, and deepest shade of blue." Notice that Nora wouldn't be asking him to tell her what she means to him, if she weren't already sure that her feelings for him are as vast as the sea.
It's possible that he was projecting some psychic energy at you that drew you in without you noticing it at the time. Or what did you feel while you were with him? What were all of your feelings? Are you wondering now Why You Like Him?
One more women's issue in central to another Nora Jones song, "I don't know why I didn't come." She's singing about her emptiness when she's involved with a guy who might say he loves her, but all he really wants is sex with her and no emotional intimacy. I assume you've known enough young guys that either don't know how to feel emotional intimacy or don't want to, and just want sex. Is that on your mind?
I'm not kidding about the possibility that the guy is projecting psychic magnetism between him and you. I know that can be done. You can make somebody feel very attracted to you without them understanding where that feeling comes from, if you imagine them feeling magnetized to your heart. But you're sneaking past their conscious-mind defenses, and that will make them uncomfortable, because they have not consciously invited you in, and you have interrupted whatever other love-life and love-agenda that your attraction target has at the time of your psychic invasion.
People can do this magnetizing of somebody else without realizing they're doing it--at least I think so. Because all you really have to do is imagine it long and hard, using pictures and sensations or feelings. But it's messing with a power different from what most of us know and use, and with paranormal power comes paranormal responsibility. So it's like using magic powers to make somebody want you. The higher power(s) will punish you for that, because you haven't taken the responsibility that goes with using that power. When you get somebody to want/love you, you get the WHOLE person, including all their insecurities, all their faults, and all of their past relationship baggage. And when you get into somebody with psychic energy you're not waiting to find out what the whole person is, so you'll end up colliding with the other life stories that person has going on when you meet them. I'm not saying he's doing this to you, or you're doing this to him, because it's just a wild guess, coming from the fact that you immediately dreamed about him.
But this line of thinking brings up two issues that can help you whether there's anything psychic going on or not. 1. What is your current love-agenda? or love-story? Are you still hurting from some breakup or from being used for sex and excitement but not loved for much more than just your body? Are you involved with somebody, but not enthusiastic about him anymore?
2. What do you know about this guy? How much do you normally find out about what a guy is doing with his life and what he's like with girls before you get in deep? This is something that both guys and women don't do until they've been used or had their hearts broken several times. They're usually well into their 20s or even over 30 before they start getting cautious enough.
So respond with answers to my questions, and together, we can learn from this surprising situation that might have some possibility of psychic influence.
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