I had three dreams the last three nights. The first dream...I dreamed that there were three Army soldiers who were high ranking. One of the the soldiers went to another and said "we got her on her knees now...now lets kick her in the balls." The other soldier said he wasn't going to be apart of that. The other soldier said that he had to but the other soldier said that he wasn't going to do that her. The other soldier said, "okay, we will just find some other way."The next dream I had, I was in my old church just when they were doing offering. The deacons were passing a basket down the pews for people to put their monies in but people were putting money in the basket but taking money other (getting change). My mother was there and she complained to me about it. I said they might not have even put real money in the basket. Me and my mother looked in the basket and sure enough there was fake money in the basket. I went out in the church and told the people in the pews to stop getting change out of the basket. They kept doing what they were doing and asked me who i was to tell them anything. I told them i was who i was and that they will stop doing that. I left the church to tell my dad what had happened but at one point in the conversation I used some sort of profanity but I just kept talking. My dad stopped me and criticized me for using those words and then told me that I was lying and that he didn't believe me that the people in the church were doing what i said they did. I told he I wasn't lying..but he stopped listening.I had another dream where I was at an eye doctor. I had slept at the doctor's office for some reason and I still had sleep in my eyes. The secretary signed me in and i saw the doctor but shortly thereafter, I was rubbing my right eye. I could still see from the eye but the eyelid was drooping and swollen looking. I went to the secretary to ask her if i could see the eye doctor again, she said that i would have to wait. I went to wait in the waiting room but there was a good number of people waiting in front of me. What do these dreams mean?
Hello and welcome!
The common thread that I notice in the three dreams is other people doing things that are negativem outside of your control, and with out regard to who you are or what you might need. In the first dream it is physically scary (the soldiers potentially kicking you), in the second dream there's some morally wrong stuff going on (fake money, stealing money), yet your Dad disregards XXXXX XXXXX this out and instead gets on you for using a swear word (which is minor in comparison to what's going on in church).
The third dream might seem minor in comparison to the other two, but actually it's not -- you need attention and help (your swollen eye) but you are disregarded again and sent to the "back of the line" so to speak.
So ---not knowing you or anything about you --I would say that either these dreams are about past distressing events in your life where you were not understood or cared for or possibly dismissed/neglected in some form --- OR there's something currently going on in your life that feels this way. Another possibility is that both are true and that the current situation is triggering a lot of old feelings from the past.
If you have further questions or need further clarification, please ask, I am happy to continue with you.
Psychologist specializing in anxiety and trauma recovery