i had a weird dream last night and i cant help but feel like it means something, me and my boyfriend just celebrated our 8 month anniversary, and in the dream we were on a date and we got in a little fight in the car, when suddenly he sees his big time celebrity crush Emma Watson, so he tells me some hurtful things and then goes and chases after her, so im crying in my car and then some time later he comes back and apologizes to me. he takes me too meet Emma and i felt like everything was better but then he was being very rude to me and ignoring me which is unusual behavior for him, it gets a little fuzzy but i woke up right after he kissed me. ive had 2 other dreams like this but with different celebrities instead of Emma
Hello, I am happy to help with your dream question. It sounds like you may be feeling a little fear about living up to your own expectations of what you think your boyfriend wants.
It is not unusual to have dreams like this even when everything seems great in a relationship...
It means that there is some issue or emotion that you just need to address in the relationship- it could seem very small on the surface, but the dream is showing you that it is bigger in your unconscious mind than you think it is.
The best way to ease your concern is to address whatever it represents in your waking state.
In the dream, you mention twice that he does or says hurtful or rude things; which is very out of character for him.
So, it makes me wonder if there was an incident recently that may have triggered these dreams of him leaving you for a celebrity? Can you think of anything?
i cant, we did get in an argument about a week ago about how he like to always be right but we resolved the conflict and reached a compromise but we never have big fights he is a very understanding person he has a lot of compassion
Let's look at this from a different angle; maybe it is a reflection of some action or behavior on your part that makes you feel as if you are not good enough for him. Dreaming of celebrities is about some idealized characteristics.
And so, him leaving you for a celebrity could be about him wanting an idealized version of yourself.
i do feel that at times but he feels the same about me and he tells me that im perfect for him
So, it is not in any way an indication that something is wrong with the relationship; it is just a reflection of your own insecurities and is probably triggered by some event or conversation involving him in your waking state that got your mind going concerning the issue. If the dreams continue to show you the theme of him leaving for a celebrity then you should probably tell him about them and discussing it- that will probably resolve the dreams.
okay i will keep that in mind, thank you.
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