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Our older dog just died, should we let our 8 mnth old puppy

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our older dog just died, should we let our 8 mnth old puppy see her before we bury her?
Submitted: 11 months ago.
Category: Dog Training
Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 11 months ago.

Hi JaCustomer,

My name is ***** ***** I’ve been involved professionally with dogs in the health and behavioral fields for over 18 years. It will be my pleasure to work with you today.

This is really a common problem. Many dogs have reactions to different noises. This is really a problem around the 4th of July and fireworks. For things like thunderstorms and heavy rain, some people tape the noise and play it back at lower volumes while playing with the dog and providing positive reinforcement for the dog's lack of anxiety while the noise is played at low volumes. Positive reinforcement would include calm praise and hot dog slices or other tasty treat (not regular treats. You then gradually increase the volume slowly until your dog is desensitized to the noise. Your vet could prescribe a medication called Acepromazine, which is a tranquilizer. You can read about this here:

http://www.petplace.com/drug-library/acepromazine-promace-aceproject/page1.aspx

Another prescription drug would be Xanax but I have to caution you not to give any prescription drug to your dog without consulting your vet first.

http://www.petplace.com/article/drug-library/library/prescription/alprazolam-xanax.

A new medication is available as well. It is supposed to work extremely well and might be useful to give while you are working on desensitizing him to the noise. Read more on this here:

http://www.sileodogus.com/

Many people get Rescue Remedy to help with noise phobias. Be sure you get the kind that does NOT contain Xylitol. It is an herbal remedy. You can read about this here:

http://www.canine-epilepsy-guardian-angels.com/rescue_remedy.htm

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It may also be available in your local pet store as well. Benadryl is often used as it does tend to calm your dog. Benadryl can be given to your dog, the dose is up to 2mg per pound every 8 hours. Benadryl in not a sedative though so it won't put your dog to sleep. Leaving a TV playing loud also helps prevent your dog from hearing the outside noises. Another treatment is Melatonin which you can read about here. It has been shown to work well for noise phobias.

http://www.petplace.com/drug-library/melatonin-melatonex/page1.aspx

I do know you would rather not give medication but I do want to mention them as they can be helpful when starting training.

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DAP collars might help a bit as well. They produce pheromones that mimic the ones produced by a nursing mom to calm her pups. This is not a medication. It has proven to be helpful with this problem but was used in conjunction with desensitization so it is unknown if the collar or the training was the major factor in resolving the problem.

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Also remember not to treat your dog any different when he shakes and pants. If you give him attention when he does this, it actually encourages the behavior rather than helping him become less fearful.

I hope this information is helpful to you. If you would like any additional information or have more questions please don’t hesitate to press the reply to expert or continue conversation button so I can address any issues you still have . If you do find this helpful, please take this opportunity to rate my answer positively so I am compensated for my time.

Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 11 months ago.

Hi JaCustomer,

I apologize. For some reason the previous persons answer got on your page. If you give me a minute I'll get your answer on her. Again I apologize profusely.

Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 11 months ago.

Again I apologize for the error that occurred especially in a time where you are already grieving. I've been breeding dogs for over 20 years and as a result we have lost quite a few dogs over the lat couple of decades. I've found that when they are able to see and sniff the deceased dog, they tend to do better than if the dog just disappears. I've had dogs whine and cry and search for a companion that went to the vet and never returned. Rarely have I had one search for a dog that they were able to sniff before the remains were buried or cremated.

I usually do not allow a lot of contact but just enough so they can identify their companion and realize they have passed. Dogs do tend to live in the present and usually get over a companion passing pretty quickly but they do grieve. You can help your dog and yourself by going places new like a park or pet store where your dog can be stimulated. Spend extra play time with your dog as their play buddy and companion is gone. In addition, your puppy senses your feelings as well and that will affect his behavior as well.

I do want to say how sorry I am that you lost your older girl. I just lost an 18 year old rescue that we had for over 13 years. His passing has left a large hole in our hearts as I'm sure your girl has left one in yours. My condolences to you and your family.

I hope this information is helpful to you. If you would like any additional information or have more questions please don’t hesitate to press the reply to expert or continue conversation button so I can address any issues you still have .

Expert:  Jane Lefler replied 11 months ago.

Hi Again,

I just thought I'd check in to see how things are going for you and your dog. Let me know if my answer was helpful.

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