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Is she spayed?
It sounds like she is the top dog?
How long has this been going on?
When she is displaying these behavior, is her tail up high or low?
Do you know her ear posture during these issues?
Who feeds her and walks her?
What obedience training has she had and who handled her for these classes?
How long ago was she in class?
If she isn't spayed, when was her last heat cycle and could she be pregnant?
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It sounds like she has bonded with you and is comfortable around you. Being female though, she should see your husband as the boss. However, if he didn't spend a lot of time with her when she was younger, she may feel a little threatened by him. Chows are rather strong willed, dominant dogs as a breed, so dominance might also be playing a role.
When your husband leans over her, that would definitely be seen as a dominant gesture. If she is dominant or fearful, that would tregger her to warn him off with a growl and if the reprimand was ignored, a nip or even bite.
So lets get your girl to see your husband as the boss but also see him as a fair leader. The best way to accomplish this is to have him take her to obedience class. He should also be the one to feed and walk her daily. She needs to see him as the one who controls her life and is her boss. Once she sees him as the boss, she won't be nipping or growling at him since he has the ability to take her resources away from her (food, exercise, etc).
Before he can get her into classes, the following site is helpful for teaching you how to train your dog. Be sure and click on the link to the page on obedience at the bottom. and links on subsequent pages leading to detailed instructions.
Training works best if you train at least 30 minutes a day (two 15 minute sessions). I would start making your dog work via the Nothing in life is free program (NILF). It is outlined below. This program also helps establish the trainer as the boss even with strong willed breeds.
Each time a dog obeys a command even if for a treat, it makes them a little more submissive to the one giving the commands. It also helps give a dog self confidence and reduces fear aggression since it teaches them what to expect from the human. So it is a win win situation since the dog also learns commands and is better controlled.
The class atmosphere helps her socialize with other dogs in a controlled environment and serves to help her learn to not be aggressive toward them. I'd start obedience at home first and then graduate to the class for the socialization skills that she needs.
Now there are other things you can do to help with aggression outside the home toward other dogs and humans. It will be helpful if you can find someone with a dog to help you once you have your dog listening to commands consistently. What you will do is have your dog on the leash. You will have your helper off in the distance. Your helper will gradually move their dog a bit closer to you preferably walking past your position in the distance. As long as your dog ignores them, you can give your dog praise and a treat. The second you see her fixate on the other dog or show any other sign of aggression (hair standing up, etc.) give your dog a correction by giving a short tug and a firm low toned "NO". It shouldn't take your dog long to realize you will not tolerate the aggression and that if she ignores the other dog, she gets treats. Once this happens you can repeat the training moving the other dog closer until he is no longer trying to lunge at other dogs. You will need to practice this when you and your dog are walking as well. If she is always reacting, then move the dog further away until she is able to succeed and you can reward her. You want to try and have her end on a good note.
Repeat using just people to reduce the people aggression as well. Perhaps a neighbor with a child will help you. Unfortunately, at this point, I would seriously consider having a behaviorist anyway available to evaluate the dog and determine the aggression level. In the meantime, institute the techniques I have recommended.
There is a new method of training that you might want to check out as well called bat training. You can read about it below.
If the situation is not improving using the techniques I've suggested, you may have to consult a professional behaviorist. You can usually find a behaviorist by asking your Vet for a recommendation or you may be able to find one using the following site.
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you gave me generalized answers....can you be more specific to my situation please.