Hello, my name isXXXXX you for allowing me to assist you! The fuel pump relay is in the under hood fuse box. look on the inside of the fuse box lid to see which one is the relay.
Yes that is the same relay, just labeled differently. The relay should look like this
Maybe you have the slimmer smaller one like this?
Well Mike, it could be the fuel pump, but it may be the PCM (engine computer) or cam or crank sensor. Do you have a good spark?