Have you tried a new relay the relay complets more circuts than just turning the starter over
Do you see a anit theft lgiht on?
OK good. try a new relay.
you are more than welcome to follow up with me even after Accept. check your fuses. good.
Did you know the relay can reset like a breaker.
when you took relay out it reset. and when you put it back in it did it again. Now this may be a weak relay. Or the circut to the relay which gets us very close.
Take relay out again and replace it see if it starts. We can continue if you want. starting and charging is my specialty.
ok so we may be looking at the ignition switch. the ignition switch signals the pcm and then the pcm signals the starter relay. so the pcm may be an issue also. But since you had it running I am leaning toward the ignition switch or circutry.