Yes, I will be in India and will work in Europe and very likely it will be some years until I have to go to the States, I'm not a US citizen.
I sent a very polite email to the mother and the father of the girl asking for a friendly and proving the girl was not mine (I think you remember me from last time we spoke).
Since their was no reply by email I sent a few days later that same message to the mother on Facebook, but she did not even see the message.
Finally like a week + I called the father, I introduced myself spoke with great care to be polite and humble and explain I was made a mistake and that I was looking to continue my life but the pain of doubting it could be my daughter was too great to ignore.
I noticed he was quiet at first I was not sure if he was listening but it later turned out when I asked several time if he was listening, he replied, I've recorded what you said, and I turning it over to the authorities, I replied I sorry for the grief I caused I was quiet for a while and he hung up. I can copy paste the email if that helps the tone of my call was very similar to the email. Please sir help me through this, I don't want a harassment charge on my record
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Yes my decision is to unequivocally not contact them again in any manner. I will paste the email so you can judge it tone:
So I must and so I will.
Do I need to worry about repercussions to my career, in regards XXXXX XXXXX being on my record?
I sent this email 3 times: 1 x to Facebook to the mother * she has not read this one because it went to spam inbox, another to her email and the last one to the Rev email.
And I agree with you Paul, I must put this behind me as best I can. Thank you
Sir, the mother is a lawyer this makes me a little nervous becuase I fear she might just file a harassment case against me just for the sake. However I believe that the tone, frequency, and objective of my contact does not support such a drastic action against me.
In any case I put behind all intentions to communication with this persons.
Is there a way of knowing if any charges have been pressed against me for harassment, thanks in advance
Also do you believe if they have done so, and I no longer contact them, would they drop the charges, and do they automatically expire with a certain period of time?
By the police taking the case you mean, that they will not accept the charges, is that correct? and also the more times passes and I do not have contact ever again with them that makes their claim far easier to repeal right?
Thank you so much, Paul!
Also if I ask for a background check to the Ohio police, and their is a charge what would be the consequences. Would it make the charges worse because I'm aware of it and don't go to Ohio?
I see so basically for knowing their will be no consequences but I should contact a lawyer to get that resolved then?
So if I travel to Texas I will not encounter any problem with the local police their, right? and what are the penalties for harassing by contacting a person a few times, thanks.
Can someone aside from me ask for a background check on me in OH, thank you
Is their a way for me to check if a charge has been filed without incriminating myself?
Also can charges be dropped if they choose to do so?
If I do that after 5 + month of no contact would that be okay?
Thank you for the good counsel.
What are the worst consequences for this type of charge, thank you in advance.
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