When to police came she told them that she had hit me several times prior (not full blown punching but slapping) and she had been drinking heavily. I hit her back, she said she wanted to calm down and we went to bed. I was woken up by the police handcuffing me. They said they had to take me to jail regardless and even after she started crying and pleading with them to not I was arrested and the court date was set for domestic abuse. She read the report the next morning and claimed that it had nothing in which she said reflected on the paperwork. It was very cut and dry and made me seem like a straight up abuser. The aggressor Alexander hit Jessica several times in the face and she has a visible black eye, cut cheek, and bloody nose. She said this was the first time this has ever happened and she now is in fear of him. After SHE bailed me out of jail and went to the jailhouse they still said she cant see me for 72 hours but let me go. Once again she wants nothing to happen to me and wishes that this will all go away. Unfortunately this is a crime against the state not her. I was also wondering, I have been overseas for the last 7 months and the night of my return this is all happened, between stress, anxiety of coming home and jetlag all fueled by alcohol will that help or hurt my case.
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