Hi Fran thank you so much to anwer my question, but I now he was at the lawers asking them what he could do legaly agaist me at this point, I know he did not do nothing but today I went to talk to him and he filmed and took picture of my car. Them he told me to be away from his family like I am really danger and he keeped moving like he was scared of me. I hate that he is acusing me of so many things and saying that I am the bad one, when he is the one that lie all I want is to clear my conscious and I do not wanna make him thinking that I am afraid of him I own him nothing...He used me and I am really ungry about it. I wanted him to pay for what he had done to me and his wife.
Hello,I just told you above what he could do to you legally, and that's likely what his lawyer told him too.Leave him alone at this point. If he goes for a civil or criminal protective order, you can challenge that legally in court, the correct way. I understand that you feel you are a victim here, and that you're angry, but I can promise you that if you escalate this situation by getting him more concerned for his safetly, you'll be in court sooner rather than later and you'll have made your case that much harder to win.
ok, But you are saying that he can win this?
he abused me mental and emotional and he is gonna end up as a victim?
Hi,Making a death threat is something that can get him either a criminal or civil protective order. You can be charged with that under New York law even if you don't have the means of carrying the threat out. As far as the state is concerned, it's enough that you said it and that he is worried about it. That can get him an order against him and also potentially get you charged with a crime, depending on what kind of an order he wants.I don't know what emotional abuse he put you through. You might be eligible for a protective order as well. Here is a list of what will get you a civil protective order in NYS. But if you won't get one if he gets to the authorities first, which he will, if you keep trying to turn this into a bigger argument with him. He wants nothing to do with you. He/you can make that happen with or without involving the courts.
ok, thank You!
I see that you are in NY I am in long Island there is any way I can talk to you in person?
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