Going to jail honestly. She did tell the arresting officers multiple times that she did not want me arrested. According to a PA law any domestic dispute mandates the defendant processed.
There where red marks left on her wrists while I was making sure she could not scratch me.
With intent to harass annoy or alarm another person namely _____ did strike, shove, kick or otherwise subject such other person to physical contact or did attempt to threaten to do the same namely held the victim down causing red marks n her wrist in an attempt to prohibit her from leaving and forcefully remve a wedding ring from her finger
In that said date did attempt to cause or did intentionally, knowingly, or recklessly cause bodily injury to _______ that is to say the defendant did case marks to the victims wrist by holding her down and refusing to leave and sprayed her with lysol causing her to be in fear
(it was in response to her spraying me with the lysol)
in that or n about said date the defendant did attempt by physical menace to put _____ in fear of imminet serious bodily injury that is to say the defendant did break her phone s that she could not call police (it was so she couldn't continue speaking with the guy she was cheating on me with) broke her laptop and hold her down refusing to let her leave (I was asking her to leave I was stopping the scratching and trying to get the ring) and sprayed her with lysol
in that on or abut said date did knowngly unlawfully restrain another ______ so as to interfere substantially with their liberty
She stated that she tried to leave but that he held her dwn for an extended period of time which she described as thirty minutes (far exaggerated and it was to get her to calm down from trying to scratch me) she stated that he was hurting her in his attempt at frcefully removing her wedding ring frm her finger she stated that when she got free and was abut to flee (she walked out of the house hardly fleeing) he sprayed her with lysol I observed red marks to her wrist where she described he was hlding her. He was visibly intoxicated and admitted to having an alterccation
I wondered if a public defender would be enough? Being that she told the officers that she did not want me arrested. Even if you didn't know both sides of the story and just heard her side what would the court rule in your opinion?
Someone had advised me that there is a probability that she would drop the charges but I'm confused by that as it says the officer is charging me with such. If my wife called the magistrate and said she didn't want to pursue the charges would this all go away? Although I am court ordered to have zero communication with her. Does her telling the officers that she did not want me arrested do anything for me? Also if she doesn't show up for the hearing does that help or hurt me?
So in reality is my worry about jail time justified or not?
I Play video games where 5 percent happens a lot if my lawyer did get her to sign said paper would that be considered myself trying to indirectly contact her as that was a part of my unsecured bail to not enter the residence contact nor indirectly contact also what good would it do if she did sign if you said she cant drop the charges
Thanks, XXXXX XXXXX been able to eat since I was jailed on the 30th. Not saying this will bring back my appetite but I can probably sleep some now. Someone was saying I had a high probability for 10 years and 25,000 in fines so you can see my issue here. Would my telling the lawyer where she most probably is to get her signature be viewed badly by the court? I was told that because we are in a commonwealth state that I was going to need the best of the best lawyers, are you saying that is untrue in your opinion?
when you say deal what do you mean
Well the guy who arraigned me seemed plenty mean about the whole thing.
Thanks for the 95% I suppose lol I have signed up for the monthly service and will continue using this website until my hearing is over, what would be the best way to contact you again if I have more questions? Also does preliminary hearing mean this is the first of a few? Or will more than likely this be resolved at the hearing? I would really like to get back into my house seeing that my mother went to the house to get me some stuff and saw a guy taking my television out.
So no chance this will go away within the first hearing even if my lawyer gets a plea bargain?
Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX in touch, usually when I'm freaking out lol It just kills me she cheats 7 times and I break a phone and a laptop after 7 times and I lose my job and pretty much everything I own.
My mother has issues with the fact that I am Hispanic and live in a predominantly white area as my wife is white as well. Is this a legitimate worry?
Also if she doesn't sign a paper saying she wants to drop the charges where am I at with it really?
A friend said that if she does sign the paper that I should plead not guilty, from my understanding plea bargains mean you are admitting guilt in exchange for a lighter sentencing. Should I just follow my lawyer's lead on this one?
i have a consultation on the 11th, hopefully all goes well im still dreadfully terrified
This morning my wife showed up where I was staying, I did not say a word to her. I immediately got my mother to answer the door. My wife requested to speak with me and my mother declined but didn't explain why. What does this do for me, and I worry that the chances of her signing anything are dramatically reduced because of her being upset thinking I was just avoiding her on my own. By any chance would the court have sent her anything in the mail or contacted her telling her that I'm unable to speak with her and the charges pressed on me?
does this help me in any way the fact that she attempted to contact me
everyone kept telling me to notify the police that she violated the pfa, is there any merit in doing so
i guess there is no actual way to tell her that i am not able to speak with her not on my own accord but by the courts ruling
ugh this is taking so long the lawyer cant work me in until the 11th, also what are the chances that the magistrate has my hearing date wrong the judge who initially told me said the 11th i then called the magistrate they said the 22nd and my wife just brought mail for me stating the 22nd of august
i have the date in writing by mail i was just wondering forgive my writing as im on my phone. my sister in law still speaks with her and she sent me screen shots of my wife saying she didnt want me aressted nor vharges pressed am i able to use this in any way
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