Your question has been transferred to the US legal section. If there is a complaint
made to the court in WA that issued the no contact order or the WA court finds out about a violation of the no contact order that occurred in any other state or in Canada, then the WA court can hold the party in contempt of that court order in WA. The key is that WA has to find out about the fact you two have violated the court order and if they do, then they can impose sanctions for contempt of the court order no matter where the contact occurred.
On this type of case, you have a better chance instead of angering the court for intentionally trying to circumvent their order to go to the court to have his attorney to file to have the restraining order vacated and have you testify on his behalf to get the order vacated. If you do get caught trying to circumvent the order by going to Canada separately to meet, the court is not going to be happy and would not be likely to vacate the order in the future if you ask as a punishment for you two intentionally violating their order (again, this is presuming you get caught or one of you does not get angry and tell the court, which believe it or not we have had happen before).
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