ok heres the deal now...the 20 year old lives with his parents and the girls parents called his parents saying that they know that their daughter was with the guy.....but the guy and his parents are unsure if this is a bluff or if the daughter ratted him out....during the call, the girl's parents said that they would like the guys parents to call them and see if they can figure things out.....the girls parents dont seem like the type that will back off....what action should be taken now by the 20 year old? and i forgot to mention the two were not actually caught together and there is no hard evidence that they were together...the girl was dropped off discreetly and went home and nobody actually saw them together so the only chance of the parents knowing he was with her would be assumption or if the girl said something
hey btw can i talk to you over a phone? it would be so much easier and i need this info immediately
ok so what if the parents of the girl keep hassling the guy? you said he should not discuss the situation with anyone...but if they continue to call again and again what should he do in response? or if they come to the house directly to discuss things what course of action should he take then?........the guy is already planning on staying away from the girl until she is no longer a minor.....so pretty much what im asking you is, should he just not talk to anybody about it? even if they keep hassling him with calls?
so i shouldnt just tell the truth and say that i was with her but didnt do anything wrong? its better to keep quiet of itok last one here i know you already answered and said that "Frankly I doubt any prosecutor would accept such a case or charge the 20 year old with anything so long as there is no evidence that he forced the girl out of the house but there simply is no reason to talk to anyone about the case."
but what are the chances that if her parents attempt to take it to court, that i will be susceptible to charges set against me? and what are the chances that i could receive a fine, be put on probation, or be issued with a possible misdemeanor?
but thats just it, nobody knows, the parents just assumed...the only "proof" would come if she said she was with me or if i said i was with her......because she was picked up and dropped off with no witnesses..........and just to clarify, if she says she did everything voluntarily then there is no case?
alright....thanks dave i appreciate the assistance
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