Ok, my father co-signed for a loan on a car for my oldest sister that my father ended up paying for every dime and every maintenance routine etc. First let me give a little history about her. She is 42 years old and even though off of them for few years, she has been a drug addict for years, she blames everyone else for her problems and never takes responsibility for her own actions. She takes off repeatedly and will live homeless or mooch off of shelters or whatever she can get... Over the years she will just show up at my fathers house like nothing ever happen, and God bless my father but does what he can to try and help her, only to get burnt every time. He lives by himself, (my mother past away 25 years ago) and he is a christian and i know it breaks his heart to see one of his children like this. She will steal everything he has while she is there and get what she can and then just vanish again. Her last episode, she ended up in Florida living in a tent/or off a church with some guy. She got off of the drugs and started doing somewhat better (for a person that is fine living like that). My father went down there to visit her and of course somehow talked him into co-signing for a car, he went home and i guess thought about it and i guess being the kindhearted Father that he is decided to co-sign. Now the car that he agreed to co-sign for was what they picked out while he was in Florida, which was like a 4 0r 5 thousand dollar car. The dealer faxed the papers up to him in Illinois where he resides and he signed them and faxed them back... Now my sister knowing that he signed them and sent them back, now knows that she is getting a car, and goes behind his back and decides that she would rather have this 25 thousand dollar car instead of that piece of crap 5 thousand dollar car. Ok, so while off of drugs supposedly while she is living in Florida with this guy, but still abusing alcohol just takes this nice car a beats it down like hell. My father gets calls from the loan company because she hit a curb and blew out a tire on the car, prob drunk and left the car in which it got impounded. The loan company is calling him to let him know that it needs to be payed because it had been in there for so long the bill was super high that the place that it was being stored at was gonna start charging way more, she never even told him. My father ended up paying for everything on that car, she was so broke and couldn't even buy a tire for it that she just let it sit in impound. Ok after a few years in which she is able to come back to illinois,,, (had to stay away for the 7 years or whatever for felony charges) Now comes back and once again acts like nothing ever happened in which does seem like finally she is turning her life around. We all try giving her a chance, ( I have 5 brothers and sisters including her) and seems like she is recovered and a better person. Long story short, she marries that guy and he ends up dying a year ago, (alcohol and perscription drugs) and she is super overwheight and is unable to work due to it, or just a good excuse to get free money, Social Security. My father lets her move back in to his house like 6 months ago because she can't afford to live on her own. By now my father has had this car payed of for some time now and due to my circumstance of going thru a divorce and having a ex just turn my life upside down and steal all my money among everything else, and also losing a job right around the same time as the divorce started, in which i held that job for 19 years since i was 17 years old and was a 6 figure income job, my father gave me the car to use to be able to get back and forth to work and didn't want to see me without a car while i would have my 2 year old daughter, just a very generous kind hearted person. My father let her use his vehicle whenever she wantedand he also told her that it is not her car because he payed for everything on that and even after it was payed off, her and her husband would show up because it needed something and they couldn't pay for itand that she proved to him that she can't take care of it. He told her that when I got back on my feet that he was giving the car to his grandson that needs a car because he is going off to college. So like a week ago, she shows up and drops my fathers truck off and wants to use the car to go see this "new guy". She stole money from him, right out of his wallet, and took credit card
info and charged up like $600.00 on the card and took off in the car. She also took his info and was applying for loans to get money in his name, because my father has recieved like 6 calls from places asking him how much of a loan he would like and so on and so on. Almost out of charcters, can explain more on next message but need to know what my father can do as in pressing charges on her. She told sister via text that her name is XXXXX XXXXX after my sister sent text saying car is getting reported stolen if she doesn't bring it back.