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This is illegal computer hacking. Additionally, the girl you date can sue this person for invasion of privacy and for harassment. If this person publicizes private chat messages in which you were involved, without your permission and without the girl's permission, you have a right to sue for "public disclosure of private facts" if the information contained in the text messages is not known to others, and is indeed private.
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