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My question... Colorado state penal law for the Age of Consent

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Colorado state penal law for the Age of Consent says the age of consent is 17 years old. Those who are under the age of 17 but are fifteen or sixteen may consent with somebody who is up to ten years older than them.

I recently moved from New Jersey to Colorado to be with a girl. I am twenty one, she turns sixteen this september, and while it looks like I could be clear to date, and pursue a committed relationship with her, her parents, mainly her Mother, know about me. They grounded her before I moved here, and recently let her out. She went and saw me and we had somewhat of a good day. Then her mom looked at her texts, saw my number, and grounded her again. We've known each other on the internet for a good four months. I have no desire to do anything against her wishes, and I want to be with this person.

I want to apologize to the family, make peace with them, and ask permission to have the privilege of asking their daughter out. I told her before I wanted to ask, and she told me her mom would try and have me arrested for pedophilia. Her mom thinks I'm a stalker, and a pedophile, and I'm not. All I'm doing is making them mad, and I'm losing sleep over this now. I'm going back into anxiety.

Is it worth confronting her mother, and trying to get on her good graces? Am I in the clear for this, I am waiting for her to be legal. I already announced to her I will wait for her, but I don't know what to do if her mother clearly doesn't want me around.

Is this legal for me in Colorado, should I ask her mother for forgiveness, a chance to prove myself, and to make peace?
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Criminal Law
Expert:  Nate replied 3 years ago.

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Legally, you are in the clear. According to Colorado statute §18-3-402 if the person is at least 15 years old but less than 17 years old and the actor is less than 10 years older, no crime has been committed.

 

As far as getting into the good graces of her parents, that is something you're going to have to work on diligently. I think you would do well to approach her mother as you described near the end of your question. You can be with her legally, but the other considerations, as in her parents' approval, are going to take more work.

 

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