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I am sorry, but usually not. The District Attorney will not just "drop" the case at this point. Once a charge relating to domestic violence is initiated, it is usually not dropped. It is the state that files the charge, not the victim, so the state has the final say.
That doesn't mean that it is not possible to work it out. First, make an appointment with the DA and speak with him, explaining what happened and that it was all an overreaction.
At the same time, initiate counseling between you and him (but do so only after telling the DA and letting them know that you are the one who is initiating contact, so he is not further charged with any violation of a restraining order). Let the DA know of this.
These factors will help in the DA's decision to prosecute the case, or perhaps make a plea deal.
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