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I am so sorry this happened to you. I think part of the problem is that you waited so long to report the rape. There are rape crisis centers that help women and I tried to find one in your area. There were a few of the women's support agencies, but though they were close, I couldn't find one exactly in Elmwood Park NJ.
The reason I am suggesting you go to one of those is that they know how to deal with the police and how to preserve evidence. They will also go with you if you need to talk to anyone. There are professionals that have helped thousands of rape victims. Please look in your phone book and find the closest one and make an appointment. Then, you will get the help you need to manuver through the "system". If you cannot find an appropriate agency, then call the local YWCA who often has that information. Good luck to you.