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When my daughter was 17 she was sexually abused by her stepfather.

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When my daughter was 17 she was sexually abused by her stepfather. Her stepfather is in law enforcement and she's scared to go to court. What steps should I take?
Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Criminal Law
Expert:  Thoreau (T-USA) replied 4 years ago.

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Any individual can report a crime to law enforcement. However, if the victim is unwilling to testify on such a matter, law enforcement may not be able to pursue the matter. On the other hand, if you witnessed the abuse or there happens to be other evidence of the abuse, law enforcement may still have sufficient evidence to pursue criminal charges.

Accordingly, you may wish to report the matter to law enforcement. However, if the victim is unwilling to cooperate, that could prevent the perpetrator from being charged or convicted.

Typically, once an adult, only the victim has a basis for a civil suit against an abuser. However, your daughter may have a basis for a civil suit if she wishes to pursue one.

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Customer: replied 4 years ago.

Is this still the case if he's setting her up not to talk.

 

Her stepfather and her mom just divorced(she's 18 now) and her mother is on medicare and cant provide insurance. My daughter lives on her own and is going to school (works part time). If she says anything he's threatened to stop her health care. I live in Arkansas and she lives in Texas so I can't insure her.

Expert:  Thoreau (T-USA) replied 4 years ago.

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That information wouldn't change my response. It's a matter of evidence. You can report the matter to law enforcement but the prosecutor needs evidence to prosecute an individual for a crime. In sexual abuse cases, sometimes, the best evidence comes from the victim's testimony. If a victim won't testify, law enforcement would need some sort of evidence to pursue the matter further.

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Customer: replied 4 years ago.

I understand what you're saying, however, would I have a chance to take him to court myself? Could she write a letter discribing the abuse and I take it to court?

Expert:  Thoreau (T-USA) replied 4 years ago.

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Again, you may want to discuss the matter with law enforcement as law enforcement may investigate the matter and find that there is sufficient evidence without her testimony. However, you wouldn't typically be able to testify as to her statements for such a purpose as it would constitute hearsay. That said, you could testify to anything you witnessed.

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Customer: replied 4 years ago.

The real issue (why she doesnt want to go to court, she doesnt want to be thought of as a prostitue) is that her stepfather paid her for sexual favors. She accepted in order to get out of the house. Would this make my case stronger with law enforcement?

Expert:  Thoreau (T-USA) replied 4 years ago.

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Evidence is key. You can report the matter to law enforcement. They can investigate it. However, depending on the evidence available, the prosecutor may or may not charge the individual with a crime.

Typically, it's best if a victim is willing to cooperate. It's not a matter of your case with law enforcement. If you report the matter to law enforcement, they'll likely investigate it. The real issue is whether or not there's going to be any admissible evidence arise from that investigation when the victim is unwilling to testify. There may or may not be any. However, your statement that she told you that she was abused or that she was paid for sex would typically be inadmissible hearsay.

Again, you can report it and law enforcement will likely investigate. However, it's an evidence problem you're looking at if the victim won't help the prosecutor.

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Customer: replied 4 years ago.
Sorry, last question. Because he is in law enforcement I'm afraid the judge or his buddies won't investigate properly. Do I have to take it to law enforcement where she lives or can I take it somewhere else in Tx?
Expert:  Thoreau (T-USA) replied 4 years ago.

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If you're concerned about impartiality, you might wish discuss the matter with the Sheriff's department instead of the city police department.

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