I suggest that you absolutely want to bring all that information to the judge's attention at your hearing. Try to get it all organized in writing-like bullet points so that you do not lose focus and can touch each point briefly. Additionally, have a cop to submit to the judge. Try to get a copy of your text records from the Phone Company to show that you never sent a text to her - and moreso she has no cell phone.
Keep in mind that you should direct all your comments to the Judge only - do not address her at all. You do not want to give the perception that you are a danger or a threat to her in anyway. If you have a witness or two who can be there to testify as to your character, that would be beneficial.
Sum it up by telling the judge that you do not want to have any communication with her at all, now that you know she does not want any - and ask that the TRO not be made permanant as it will effect your future goals, employement opportunities, etc.
Keep in mind, that you should not speak to her, nor interupt her while she is speaking.
Best of success to you in this matter,
She has no say over the rights of her "friends" so if that is who you contacted you cannot be held responsible unless in the contact you asked to have a message delivered to her - then that would be a "third-party" contact. But they would need to get their own TRO
You can point out that it is incomplete and ask that the entire matter be dismissed - but there could be some latitude since it was an "emergency" petiton - but you are correct - without signature there is not attest that it is true and correct - therefore, anything could have been said without fear of penalties of perjury. I do not have any caselaw on it, of course - but you certainly have a good and valid point.
I do not have the capability to find caselaw - I am not a member - I will opt out and allow another expert who does have that capability to assist you in that area.
Thanks for the accept and best to you in this matter
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