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Based on what you describe, you have a binding contract with the dealership. The fact that you subsequently found that you could have gotten some of these things elsewhere cheaper does not mean the dealership did anything wrong.
I wish I could offer a better answer, but absent some sort of fraud, I think you have little recourse. You might be able to refinance some of this with USAA.
I hope this helps.