Hi there and welcome
Are you using AOL via AOL desktop? Or via the AOL website Mail service?
click on Trash on the left in AOL Mail and look for the email there.
Can you find it?
Sorry it has been removed for good, once it leaves the trash it is not able to be returned as it has then been removed from the server as well (permanently deleted)
I am really sorry about this, and if you have problems, or would like any additional information or assistance, please do not hesitate to let me know.
And if you can take a second to rate my service by clicking one of the stars at the top of the page, then submit, that would be greatly appreciated.