I have done as you suggested ( many times)What I would really like to know is how does he keep doing it. A) I have been using blackberries since they came out certainly over 10 years. While living in the house together he had administrator access to computers but we have not had that for 3 or 4 years.
I have intentionally not had the phones configured to an enterprise so I know exactly when he hacks.
Yestersdays method of freezing the screen was new it said mute to un freeze, is there even a mute button on the blackberries.
How do you want payment I have signed up for monthy assistance.
At one stage i had all messages open, I went to the menu and asked it to mark the unread ones, they all came up as unread, later that night he opened them on by one
I think he was intercepting all messages at that stage. I removed the battery and kept the phone as he was also into my emails at work through web mail and I think dodgy certificates that I could not delete as it need my keystore password XXXXX was always set remotely. As I worked for a Bank our own IT finally figured what was happening with my emails, there were 167 folders and a filter had been put on each folder, it came very close to driving me nuts.
It is good to be able to ask someone, the only thing I had going for me at the time was my PA would see emails popping in and out of my in box. The Bank in question were not "cleaning phones properly, sms and emails were altogether etc. This time I would like to cut it off at the beginning, When he was at his worst I actually bought 4 phones in one day, took them to my provider, who switched sim cards passwords etc and that worked for about a month.