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Hi Meg and Don! Thanks for giving Benny this attention and care. You have very big hearts to be doing all this for her. Can she ever be tamed? I would say that there is hope that her social comfort with you and your husband can be increased. Where is the plateau as far as how comfortable she's going to be? That is something that is not known. I've seen some indoor tame cats that are still very unsocial despite all the care and attention that the owners give them. I've then seen some feral cats that are as sweet and loving with absolutely no previous human contact. The best thing that you can do to try and tame / socialize her is to be there during feedings to continually reinforce that you're the provider of the food and that you're not a threat to her. With persistence and time, hopefully she can continue to blossom her understanding that you and your husband are there for her. The absolute unknown here is how she would acclimate to an indoor environment with the other cats. Could she become tolerant of them or would she be stressed?