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Thank you for the information. Unfortunately, trying to grab the hair and pull it out isn't a good idea for two reasons. It's difficult and can be very uncomfortable causing her to try to bite or just not allow you to do it. Secondly the hair ball could cause some damage if you forcibly try to remove it without anesthesia and some careful pulling. The best option is to try and get her to swallow it back down. At that point it will either pass through her intestinal tract or come back up again and perhaps not get stuck the second time. Try offering her some warm chicken broth to tempt her to drink. You can even try force feeding her the fluids with a syringe or eye dropper. A small amount of canned for or chicken breast may also help if she will eat it. Finally, there are hairball remedies that can be found at your pet store. They are laxatives and giving that may help this hair ball pass through her intestinal tract without a problem. If that still doesn't work then a visit to the vet is best. She might need some light anesthesia in order to get the hairball out. If you have more questions please let me know.