at the power distribution box , look really good there is a large red cable there and it's going to the alternator, battery, or starter. where that cable connects to the distribution box is where the mega fuse is located, remove that cable. good luck.
Ok. Again I looked and there is no large red cable going to the distribution fuse box. There is a large red cable going from the battery to the starter. Could this be the one?
You have been so kind and I appreciate your trying to work with a dumb female. I will accept your answer.