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Hello, thank you for the question. You seem to have your head around the issues and the pitfalls of your position.
Do you have an estimate of what you stand to get from this estate? I know that estate litigation is deeply personal but you'll be helping yourself if you try to be objective and keep your approach business-like.
I doubt you'd get anywhere with criminal charges, as you observe. A component of elder abuse is that the elderly person is relying on another for basic care and humane treatment. If that reliance or dependence isn't there, it's simply abuse or assault.
You correctly observe that the executor has a duty to the beneficiaries to give updates and accounting of the estate upon reasonable demand. If your executor isn't doing this, then the best way to resolve it is to get another lawyer to write to the executor making those demands. That should get the executor's attention and shouldn't cost you much at all. It's only a letter.
Call around to some estate lawyers (many also practise family law) and ask what it would cost for a consult and a letter. I'm sure you can find one who will help you out for very little, maybe a couple of hundred dollars. That's your best, ***** ***** only, place to start.
Does that make sense?
I think you've seen what I wrote I wrote yesterday. Did my answer help? Anything else about this you'd like to discuss with me?