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If you try and avoid service this will harm you and not the mother.
First, you will be shown to be unco-operative in court.
Second, the sender will be able to get a court order to serve you in an alternative way and you will also get stuck with the costs the mother incurs in getting this order.
Finally, if you end up in Court and the mother wins you will have to pay her costs and these will be higher because of your actions.
It is highly inadvisable to try and avoid service.