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I am sorry for your loss and for this difficult situation.
Unfortunately the law is very clear and your mother-in-law is now entitled to the money and can do what she wants with it. If your spouse wanted you to have the money she had to change the beneficiary to you.
I am sorry this is not at all what you want to hear but I have to tell you the truth and provide an accurate answer of course.