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It is entirely up to her to decide where to be buried.
To be clear she can set out her wishes in her Will. The executor of her Will must comply with her wishes.
She can also have the lawyer who does the Will either help her do a letter explaining what she has decided or the lawyer can keep some notes in her/his file.
The husband has no right to decide where she is buried.