my mother has been declared legally and financially incompetent. My brother and I were intially named joint POA's but he has declined and sent a letter to the public trustee stating that he did not wish to be a POA. I am concerned about what will happen to my mother if something happens to me and I am trying to update my legal and financial affairs and she is now part of that.
yes, however since then because of things that she did before she was declared incompetent, my brother does not want to be involved in anything to do with her affairs. Took a while to get her dementia confirmed.