I have thought of sending a letter but I do not have any contact information for her i.e. address. All I have is her maiden and married name (she no longer goes by either).
From a basic, human right standpoint, how is it that i have no legal rights to my own background? Is it just because the laws surrounding this is so outdated?
I find it unfathomable that this woman, 42 yrs later, still gets to make decisions that greatly impact my life and now my son's life.