I have been his caregiver, ie all yardwork, cleaning, maintaining appts during chemo, communication with hospital, arranging care for in-home when chemo bottle had to come out etc. Cleaning up after "accidents". I HAVE given money to him during my working days but when cancer/chemo started had to be a full time care-giver. I find it hard to believe that any human after that trama can get a job in this market, pack and find somewhere to live. He has 2 charges of abuse against me previous to the cancer and is consistently verbally abusive. I have also given him a lump some of money 2 months ago of $10,000. It is hard to believe that the court system would agree with such a short period of time after taking care of not only him, the property and our two dogs.
That is in my opinion an unfair judgement. I HAVE made improvements to the house. So basically because of his anger of having cancer I will be on the streets. Nice law system.
I do not consider physical labour every day rent free. It is as if you were to hire a someone to take care of you.