That is very unfortunate that your daughter stopped calling you and does not provide you with the respect you deserve as a father. As she is not a minor and not a dependent of your, there are no legal steps you need to take to 'disown' her. Rather, you can cease contact with her and, based on what you have told me, there would be no rules in place forcing you to be associated with her, nor would there be any legal ramifications for doing so.
In conclusion, only in the cases of minors or dependents (and possibly persons under disability, or where power of attorney or trust issues or other exigent circumstances exist) must actual paperwork be done to attempt to 'disown' someone. As she is a fully-functioning married adult, there is no paperwork or legal steps that must be taken. Rather, you can 'disown' her by merely cutting off all communication with her.
Hopefully that is of assistance, I wish you the best of luck with your matter.
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