I have o years aga 14 years old girl, who does not have a father, I lost my husband almost two years ago. She is a very good girl and I have taken a good care of her and of course she is very beautiful which couses problem. Last night she was invited to a friend birth day party. This boy is in the same school and same grade ( Grade 9). She went to the party with her close friends from the same school. I picked them up after party and they came to my place. At home I noticed my daughter has a broose on her neck. Finally I found out one of the guests, a same age boy from the same school has done this. My daughter says " everybody was dancing and all of a sudden he jumped on her and kissed her neck and my daughter pushed him away. The question is what should I do now? I have to do something, otherwise this may happen again, or he may make story at school. What should I do?
Province/Territory relating to question: Ontario
Talked to my accountant and asked him to come with me to the boy's house to talk.
From a legal point of view unless your daughter is telling you that she was assaulted there is not anything you can do.
I am assuming he is her age.
If he is much older then let me know.
But one child kissing another's neck at a dance when they are the same age will not be considered a legal matter.
If this was an assault then you can call the police.
You can also make an appointment and talk to the school principle of vice principle.
You said he was her age.
If you find out he is more than 5 years older then you can call the police and report this.
The same would hold true if he was in a position of authority.
But if he is truly the same age then unless this was against her will this is not a legal issue.
She says this was against her will, but anyway I am not going to make a case. I would like to warn him and scare him. I don't want this boy get close to my daughter again or make story at school. How should I do this?
You need to be very careful.
You cannot go and scare a kid.
That could be seen as threatening.
A parent threatening a child who kissed her kid is not necessarily OK.
He is a child,
You need to be very careful so you are not placing yourself at risk.
At most speak to his parents and say what happened and ask them to deal with it.
Can I go to his parents with my daughter and my accountant who is a friend as well and tell the parents that your son did something which wan as against my daughter's will and I can go to police but I am going to ignore this time but your son should know I don't want him around my daughter and he should not make story out of it.
You can say some of this.
But don't say about the police.
That is extortion.
What does extortion mean?
It's when you say if.... I will do this.
The only time you can say something like that is when you say do... or I will sue you.
You cannot threaten to go to the police.
How to find his address?
You cannot unless it's listed in the phone book.
The school cannot give it out.
To use the phone book I need father's name. How to find that?
I don't think you can unless your daughter can find it.
The school cannot give that out either.
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