Ah, I was under the impression that the marriage had been shorter than that. Your lawyer is right, after 6 years of marriage, spousal support is absolutely on the table. If your husband has treated your child as his own that whole time, then child support is likely too.
I assume that you haven't been to court yet. Something your lawyer will probably suggest is to go to court, and bring a motion for temporary order for custody, access, child support, spousal support, and exclusive possession of the family home. His threats to sell it from under you and evict are good evidence for the exclusive possession order.
As well, in the Application you can ask for an order that in the event of a noting in default of your husband, or his fleeing the jurisdiction, that the full title of the home, its equity and your ability to sell it, be transferred to you. I've seen those orders made. Then, if a support order is made that he doesn't like, and he leaves the country to go somewhere that a support order can't touch him, then you have the house.
But something to keep in mind is that with no independent income, you're relying solely on your husband to pay the ongoing costs of that house. That puts you in a precarious position. Like it or not, you may have to consider selling the place and getting something more affordable. You can't have all of your money tied up in one expensive home, and perhaps being unable to pay the bills and taxes on that home if your husband doesn't pay support for any reason. I know that's not a very palatable suggestion, but that's the reality, and you really think about it. I know you want to keep the child in that neighbourhood and school and activities, but if you can't afford the home then you don't have much choice. I'm not trying to persuade to do anything, just give it some thought. That uncertainty you're feeling is what's making you anxious about all of this, and brings you back here.
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