California Employment Law
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Unfortunately I know of no legal basis to extend the deadline if you missed it unless your employer's plan allows for some type of grace period. Also, you may want to check the plan and see if there is a way for you to carry over money left in the account to this year.
I know this is not the answer you wanted to hear, but I am assuming that you are wanting a professional and honest answer.