Hello. I have recently been dumped by my partner of 4 and a half years. The way it happened was horrible, and the consequences were worse. I knew things were bad about a year ago when I first found out that he cheated on me, but we had been through so much, that I gave him yet another chance. Now that we are seperated, he moved to another city, but still comes around with his new girlfriend making a show in front of all the people that I kn ow, and places of business that I am well established with. Then, after two months, he calls me to tell me that he has had time to think things over, and that he realized that the way he handled things were very wrong, and that he was extremely sorry. He told me that he still loves me very much, thinks about me constantly, and wanted to know if there was a chance that the two of us could ever get back together. I asked him about his girlfriend, and he said that he wasn't sure, and that he thinks that he wants to have the best of both worlds, and that know I would be the "other" woman, and wouldn't be the one felling hurt. And I love him very much, but at the same time, I remember how I felt when I found out what he had been doing, and as much as I want revenge on her, I can't seem to get myself to do it. But I want to because I still want to be a part of his life, and maybe if I stick around, he'll realize that he made the wrong decision by her, and come back to me. What should I do? Am I chasing false hopes, and unrealistic dreams?