Hi,
I completely understand, I would be a little aggravated as well, I just didn't want to try and help if you would have rather sent the information to Dr. Phil's Website.
It sounds like you are in a tough situation and your husband is being inconsiderate of your wants and needs. Unfortunately the only way to fix this is to decide in the end what you are going to do and stick with it.
If after considerable thought you decide that either which way you are moving back, then it is time to sit down with your husbands and talk this over. Make sure you don't give ultimatums. Simply explain how you feel and what you have decided. Let him know that you love him and wish that he could be considerate of your feelings but this is what you need and so you feel you must do what is in the best interest of you.
Let him know you are willing to compromise about it and you both come back in the winter months.
In the end if he refuses to compromise about it you will have to stick to what you have decided. If it was to go, let him know when you will be leaving and that you wish he would come with you. If it was to stay and try to stick it out hen you must do what is best for you.
Unfortunately your husband needs to sit down and think about this as well, is losing his wife worth living there? And if it is then you both have more problems then just where to live and may need to seek out some relationship counseling to decide where your relationship stopped growing.
I know this is a frustrating time for you, living somewhere you are unhappy can cause more depression and anxiety then anything else. You deserve to be happy and be where you are needed by your family.
I wish you the best if you need anything please let me know.
Melissa
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