is there any possibility that we may face legal ramifications?
If we try to make it right by marrying, is it going to kick up our Connecticut marriage certificate? We want to change our oldest daughters name to the same as ours but it is asking for my wives divorce date and our marriage date which is conflicting, Would we require some form of document stating that the Connecticut license is void or is that just factual due to us marrying under such conditions?
Also, my wife is in the military and we have been receiving married benefits (housing allowance, health insurance, etc.) since our date of marriage. When we re marry she will need to turn in our new marriage certificate how can we get some proof that our previous cert was void and that our new one is legitimate and that she is not a polygamist and that we were just dumb? This is why we are worried about legal ramifications.
Hi, this is the wife, since it's easier to directly relate I'm taking over. I was previously married twice. My first marriage was annulled. My husband is the one in the military and I want straight answers so we can fix this so I am spilling the beans, When I met my current husband we could not find my ex and it was a two year battle trying to file for divorce. I did indeed think we were divorced when my recent and i got married but when he went to put us on as dependents they were asking for my divorce decree and that's when we realized something was wrong. Rather than regress we got scared and submitted my annulment papers from my previous marriage since we were had already started the process within the military and were scared at that point they would kick him out if they found out I was still legally married.We are tired of living with a sense of panic and now we want to fix everything and don't know which way to start. I don't want my husband to lose his job and honestly we were not trying to be deceitful we were just quite stupid.
At the clerks office I submitted my annulment papers and they receieved such copy, not for the divorce
No. Only the annulment.
Thanks for your advice.
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